and i think those that were with him down in kansas city every day, because i'm not in kansas city, would have the same trouble answering that question. >> coach crennel, i know, is also a client. have you had a chance to talk to him? what has he told you? >> we've -- we've just talked via text. it was kind of like, you know, i'm here for you, i'm praying for you. there's nothing to be said when you lose a loved one. especially under these conditions. i think we all grieve in our own way. you don't try to impose your grief on someone else the way you might handle it. you know, i just want to let him know i'm thinking about him. he as well as scott pioli are in my prayers, as well as obviously both families. >> let me bring in tiki barber. you heard the clip of derrick johnson who plays for the chiefs. he was saying -- very emotional, sort of saying we've got to figure out how to, i guess, get in each other's heads. understand people who are having problems. how practically speaking do you do this? >> it's very difficult. because you're together all day as a football team. you're in your l